Caught between garbage cans,
my mother learned to parallel park.
Back and forth,
the clash of metal on metal
under my father’s glare.
Her life was as tightly prescribed
by my father and his parents,
as the car by the cans.
Stepping beyond bounds
was not sanctioned.
Easier to escape metal
than to impress herself on my father.
The resilience of garbage cans
may have soothed my mother
as she battled the family car.
Most of my mom’s generation had somewhat similar lives. And in rural areas in India, nothing much has changed.
common man
Comment by gautami tripathy — April 17, 2008 @ 8:25 am
My mother never learned to drive but then neither did I but for different reasons. I like the part the garbage cans play in your poem
Comment by Crafty Green Poet — April 17, 2008 @ 8:44 am
I wonder if your mother was soothed or petrified?
Comment by Richard — April 17, 2008 @ 10:15 am
I’ve known women like this. Your poetry rings so true.
Comment by Tumblewords — April 17, 2008 @ 12:35 pm
and what a wise woman you have become.. the very idea that you can equate your mothers search for self with the banging of the trash cans while attempting to parallel park is amazing… this was very full of wisdom,, on many levels….
Comment by paisley — April 17, 2008 @ 1:29 pm
Oh, I just love a fresh metaphor and this one is! It pulled me right in. Love it!
Comment by Linda Jacobs — April 17, 2008 @ 3:20 pm
A classic depiction of the Indian societal system of the older generation. Touching.
Comment by Aareet — April 17, 2008 @ 3:54 pm
I like the thought ‘caught between garbage cans’ Phew!
Comment by SweetTalkingGuy — April 17, 2008 @ 6:26 pm
very nice, very emotional and thought provoking
Comment by ptcakes — April 18, 2008 @ 4:40 am